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Kim Namjoon (김남준) aka RM: 'I have come to love myself for who I am', Love Myself/#Endviolence campaign, United Nations - 2018

December 7, 2018

24 September 2018, United Nations, New York, USA

Thank you, Mr. Secretary General, UNICEF Executive Director and all the excellencies and distinguished guests from all across the world.

My name is Kim Namjoon also known as RM, the leader of the group BTS. It is an incredible honour to be invited to an occasion with such significance for today’s young generation.

Last November, BTS launched the Love Myself campaign with UNICEF, building on our belief that true love first begins with loving myself.

We have been partnering with UNICEF’s #ENDviolence programme to protect children and young people all over the world from violence. And our fans have become a major part of this campaign with their action and with their enthusiasm.

We truly have the best fans in the world.

And I’d like to begin by talking about myself. I was born in Ilsan-gu, a city near Seoul, South Korea. It is a beautiful place, with a lake, hills, and even an annual flower festival. I spent a happy childhood there, and I was just an ordinary boy. I used to look up at the night sky in wonder and I used to dream the dreams of a boy. I used to imagine that I was a superhero, who could save the world. And in an intro to one of our early albums, there is a line that says, “My heart stopped when I was maybe nine or ten.”

Looking back, I think that’s when I began to worry about what other people thought of me and started seeing myself through their eyes. I stopped looking up at the night skies, the stars. I stopped daydreaming. Instead, I just tried to jam myself into the moulds that other people made. Soon, I began to shut out my own voice and started to listen to the voices of others. No one called out my name and neither did I.

My heart stopped and my eyes closed shut.

So, like this, I, we, all lost our names. We became like ghosts.

But I had one sanctuary and that was music. There was a small voice inside of me that said, “Wake up man, and listen to yourself.” But it took me a long time to hear music calling my real name. Even after making the decision to join BTS, there were a lot of hurdles. Some people might not believe it but most people thought we were hopeless. And sometimes, I just wanted to quit. But I think I was very lucky that I didn’t give it all up. And I’m sure that I and we will keep stumbling and falling.

BTS has become artists performing in those huge stadiums and selling millions of albums right now. But I am still an ordinary 24-year-old guy. If there’s anything that I’ve achieved, it was only possible because I had my other BTS members right by my side and because of the love and the support that our ARMY of fans all over the world made for us.

And maybe I made a mistake yesterday but yesterday’s me is still me.

Today, I am who I am with all of my faults and my mistakes

Tomorrow I might be a tiny bit wiser and that would be me too.

These faults and mistakes are what I am, making up the brightest stars in the constellation of my life. I have come to love myself for who I am, for who I was and for who I hope to become.

I’d like to say one last thing. After releasing our Love Yourself albums and launching the Love Myself campaign, we started to hear remarkable stories from our fans all over the world, how our message helped them overcome their hardships in life and start loving themselves.

These stories constantly remind us of our responsibility.

So let’s all take one more step. We have learned to love ourselves, so now I urge you to “speak yourself”. I’d like to ask all of you, what is your name? What excites you and makes your heart beat? Tell me your story. I want to hear your voice and I want to hear your conviction.

No matter who you are, where you’re from, your skin colour, your gender identity, just speak yourself.

Find your name find your voice by speaking yourself.

I’m Kim Namjoon and also RM of BTS. I’m an idol and I’m an artist from a small town in Korea.

Like most people, I’ve made many and plenty mistakes in my life. I have many faults and I have many more fears, but I’m going to embrace myself as hard as I can and I’m starting to love myself, gradually, just little by little.

What is your name?

Speak Yourself.

Thank you very much

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iijkyRoraZ...

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