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Rabbi Jonathan Sacks: 'The appearance of antisemitism in a culture is the first symptom of a disease', Understanding Antisemitism address to European Parliament - 2016

November 15, 2016

27 September 2016, European Parliament, Brussels, Belgium

The hate that begins with Jews never ends with Jews. That is what I want us to understand today. It wasn’t Jews alone who suffered under Hitler. It wasn’t Jews alone who suffered under Stalin. It isn’t Jews alone who suffer under ISIS or Al Qaeda or Islamic Jihad. We make a great mistake if we think antisemitism is a threat only to Jews. It is a threat, first and foremost, to Europe and to the freedoms it took centuries to achieve.

Antisemitism is not about Jews. It is about anti-Semites. It is about people who cannot accept responsibility for their own failures and have instead to blame someone else. Historically, if you were a Christian at the time of the Crusades, or a German after the First World War, and saw that the world hadn’t turned out the way you believed it would, you blamed the Jews. That is what is happening today. And I cannot begin to say how dangerous it is. Not just to Jews but to everyone who values freedom, compassion and humanity.

The appearance of antisemitism in a culture is the first symptom of a disease, the early warning sign of collective breakdown. If Europe allows antisemitism to flourish, that will be the beginning of the end of Europe. And what I want to do in these brief remarks is simply to analyze a phenomenon full of vagueness and ambiguity, because we need precision and understanding to know what antisemitism is, why it happens, why antisemites are convinced that they are not antisemitic.

First let me define antisemitism. Not liking Jews is not antisemitism. We all have people we don’t like. That’s OK; that’s human; it isn’t dangerous. Second, criticizing Israel is not antisemitism. I was recently talking to some schoolchildren and they asked me: is criticizing Israel antisemitism? I said No and I explained the difference. I asked them: Do you believe you have a right to criticize the British government? They all put up their hands. Then I asked, Which of you believes that Britain has no right to exist? No one put up their hands. Now you know the difference, I said, and they all did.

Antisemitism means denying the right of Jews to exist collectively as Jews with the same rights as everyone else. It takes different forms in different ages. In the Middle Ages, Jews were hated because of their religion. In the nineteenth and early twentieth century they were hated because of their race. Today they are hated because of their nation state, the state of Israel. It takes different forms but it remains the same thing: the view that Jews have no right to exist as free and equal human beings.

If there is one thing I and my contemporaries did not expect, it was that antisemitism would reappear in Europe within living memory of the Holocaust. The reason we did not expect it was that Europe had undertaken the greatest collective effort in all of history to ensure that the virus of antisemitism would never again infect the body politic. It was a magnificent effort of antiracist legislation, Holocaust education and interfaith dialogue. Yet antisemitism has returned despite everything.

On 27 January 2000, representatives of 46 governments from around the world gathered in Stockholm to issue a collective declaration of Holocaust remembrance and the continuing fight against antisemitism, racism and prejudice. Then came 9/11, and within days conspiracy theories were flooding the internet claiming it was the work of Israel and its secret service, the Mossad. In April 2002, on Passover, I was in Florence with a Jewish couple from Paris when they received a phone call from their son, saying, “Mum, Dad, it’s time to leave France. It’s not safe for us here anymore.”

In May 2007, in a private meeting here in Brussels, I told the three leaders of Europe at the time, Angela Merkel, President of the European Council, Jose Manuel Barroso, President of the European Commission, and Hans-Gert Pöttering, President of the European Parliament, that the Jews of Europe were beginning to ask whether there was a future for Jews in Europe.

That was more than nine years ago. Since then, things have become worse. Already in 2013, before some of the worst incidents, the European Union Agency for Fundamental Rights found that almost a third of Europe’s Jews were considering emigrating because of anti-Semitism. In France the figure was 46 percent; in Hungary 48 percent.

Let me ask you this. Whether you are Jewish or Christian, Muslim: would you stay in a country where you need armed police to guard you while you prayed? Where your children need armed guards to protect them at school? Where, if you wear a sign of your faith in public, you risk being abused or attacked? Where, when your children go to university, they are insulted and intimidated because of what is happening in some other part of the world? Where, when they present their own view of the situation they are howled down and silenced?

This is happening to Jews throughout Europe. In every single country of Europe, without exception, Jews are fearful for their or their children’s future. If this continues, Jews will continue to leave Europe, until, barring the frail and the elderly, Europe will finally have become Judenrein.

How did this happen? It happened the way viruses always defeat the human immune system, namely, by mutating. The new antisemitism is different from the old antisemitism, in three ways. I’ve already mentioned one. Once Jews were hated because of their religion. Then they were hated because of their race. Now they are hated because of their nation state. The second difference is that the epicenter of the old antisemitism was Europe. Today it’s the Middle East and it is communicated globally by the new electronic media.

The third is particularly disturbing. Let me explain. It is easy to hate, but difficult publicly to justify hate. Throughout history, when people have sought to justify anti-Semitism, they have done so by recourse to the highest source of authority available within the culture. In the Middle Ages, it was religion. So we had religious anti-Judaism. In post-Enlightenment Europe it was science. So we had the twin foundations of Nazi ideology, Social Darwinism and the so-called Scientific Study of Race. Today the highest source of authority worldwide is human rights. That is why Israel—the only fully functioning democracy in the Middle East with a free press and independent judiciary—is regularly accused of the five cardinal sins against human rights: racism, apartheid, crimes against humanity, ethnic cleansing and attempted genocide.

The new antisemitism has mutated so that any practitioner of it can deny that he or she is an antisemite. After all, they’ll say, I’m not a racist. I have no problem with Jews or Judaism. I only have a problem with the State of Israel. But in a world of 56 Muslim nations and 103 Christian ones, there is only one Jewish state, Israel, which constitutes one-quarter of one per cent of the land mass of the Middle East. Israel is the only one of the 193 member nations of the United Nations that has its right to exist regularly challenged, with one state, Iran, and many, many other groups, committed to its destruction.

Antisemitism means denying the right of Jews to exist as Jews with the same rights as everyone else. The form this takes today is anti-Zionism. Of course, there is a difference between Zionism and Judaism, and between Jews and Israelis, but this difference does not exist for the new antisemites themselves. It was Jews not Israelis who were murdered in terrorist attacks in Toulouse, Paris, Brussels and Copenhagen. Anti-Zionism is the antisemitism of our time.

In the Middle Ages Jews were accused of poisoning wells, spreading the plague, and killing Christian children to use their blood. In Nazi Germany they were accused of controlling both capitalist America and communist Russia. Today they are accused of running ISIS as well as America. All the old myths have been recycled, from the Blood Libel to the Protocols of the Elders of Zion. The cartoons that flood the Middle East are clones of those published in Der Sturmer one of the primary vehicles of Nazi propaganda between 1923 and 1945.

The ultimate weapon of the new antisemitism is dazzling in its simplicity. It goes like this. The Holocaust must never happen again. But Israelis are the new Nazis; the Palestinians are the new Jews; all Jews are Zionists. Therefore the real antisemites of our time are none other than the Jews themselves. And these are not marginal views. They are widespread throughout the Muslim world, including communities in Europe, and they are slowly infecting the far left, the far right, academic circles, unions, and even some churches. Having cured itself of the virus of antisemitism, Europe is being reinfected by parts of the world that never went through the self-reckoning that Europe undertook once the facts of the Holocaust became known.

How do such absurdities come to be believed? This is a vast and complex subject, and I have written a book about it, but the simplest explanation is this. When bad things happen to a group, its members can ask one of two questions: “What did we do wrong?” or “Who did this to us?” The entire fate of the group will depend on which it chooses.

If it asks, “What did we do wrong?” it has begun the self-criticism essential to a free society. If it asks, “Who did this to us?” it has defined itself as a victim. It will then seek a scapegoat to blame for all its problems. Classically this has been the Jews.

Anti-Semitism is a form of cognitive failure, and it happens when groups feel that their world is spinning out of control. It began in the Middle Ages, when Christians saw that Islam had defeated them in places they regarded as their own, especially Jerusalem. That was when, in 1096, on their way to the Holy Land, the Crusaders stopped first to massacre Jewish communities in Northern Europe. It was born in the Middle East in the 1920s with the collapse of the Ottoman Empire. Antisemitism re-emerged in Europe in the 1870s during a period of economic recession and resurgent nationalism. And it is re-appearing in Europe now for the same reasons: recession, nationalism, and a backlash against immigrants and other minorities. Antisemitism happens when the politics of hope gives way to the politics of fear, which quickly becomes the politics of hate.

This then reduces complex problems to simplicities. It divides the world into black and white, seeing all the fault on one side and all the victimhood on the other. It singles out one group among a hundred offenders for the blame. The argument is always the same. We are innocent; they are guilty. It follows that if we are to be free, they, the Jews or the state of Israel, must be destroyed. That is how the great crimes begin.

Jews were hated because they were different. They were the most conspicuous non-Christian minority in a Christian Europe. Today they are the most conspicuous non-Muslim presence in an Islamic Middle East. Anti-Semitism has always been about the inability of a group to make space for difference. No group that adopts it will ever, can ever, create a free society.

So I end where I began. The hate that begins with Jews never ends with Jews. Antisemitism is only secondarily about Jews. Primarily it is about the failure of groups to accept responsibility for their own failures, and to build their own future by their own endeavours. No society that has fostered antisemitism has ever sustained liberty or human rights or religious freedom. Every society driven by hate begins by seeking to destroy its enemies, but ends by destroying itself.

Europe today is not fundamentally antisemitic. But it has allowed antisemitism to enter via the new electronic media. It has failed to recognize that the new antisemitism is different from the old. We are not today back in the 1930s. But we are coming close to 1879, when Wilhelm Marr founded the League of Anti-Semites in Germany; to 1886 when Édouard Drumont published La France Juive; and 1897 when Karl Lueger became Mayor of Vienna. These were key moments in the spread of antisemitism, and all we have to do today is to remember that what was said then about Jews is being said today about the Jewish state.

The history of Jews in Europe has not always been a happy one. Europe’s treatment of the Jews added certain words to the human vocabulary: disputation, forced conversion, inquisition, expulsion, auto da fe, ghetto, pogrom and Holocaust, words written in Jewish tears and Jewish blood. Yet for all that, Jews loved Europe and contributed to it some of its greatest scientists, writers, academics, musicians, shapers of the modern mind.

If Europe lets itself be dragged down that road again, this will be the story told in times to come. First they came for the Jews. Then for the Christians. Then for the gays. Then for the atheists. Until there was nothing left of Europe’s soul but a distant, fading memory.

Today I have tried to give voice to those who have no voice. I have spoken on behalf of the murdered Roma, Sinti, gays, dissidents, the mentally and physically handicapped, and a million and a half Jewish children murdered because of their grandparents’ religion. In their name, I say to you: You know where the road ends. Don’t go down there again.

You are the leaders of Europe. Its future is in your hands. If you do nothing, Jews will leave, European liberty will die, and there will be a moral stain on Europe’s name that all eternity will not erase.

Stop it now while there is still time.

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Rabbi Kenneth Berger with wife Aviva

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Rabbi Berger: 'Can you imagine knowing that in a few moments death was imminent?', Five minutes to live, Yom Kippur - 1986

October 4, 2016

13 October 1986, Yom Kippur, Congregation Rodeph Sholom, Tampa, Florida, USA

Tragically, three years after delivering this sermon, imagining the last minutes of the Challenger astronauts, Rabbi Berger was involved in crash landing in which he had 40 minutes to comprehend his possible death. He died in the crash, as did his wife. Their daughter survived.

Dear Friends:


The scene still haunts me:  It was perhaps the most awful moment of the past year.  Against the pale blue sky on a crystal clear Florida day, the space shuttle challenger exploded before our very eyes.  Seven brave astronauts, who just a few hours before were chatting with the press, schmoozing with proud relatives and friends, were suddenly gone.


I bring this to your attention because life and death is a major theme of Yom Kippur.  We read in our Mahzor


Who shall live, and who shall die?
Who shall attain the measure of man’s days and who shall not?


On Rosh Hashanah, it is inscribed and on Yom Kippur, it is sealed.   


This is indeed, a time for “Heshbon Hanefesh”.  For self-introspection.  The old adage.  “Here Today – Gone Tomorrow” is indeed true.  Just ask husbands, whose wives are suddenly taken; who suddenly find themselves alone.  Reaching over to find the other side of the bed cold and empty.  Beloved parents who it seems only yesterday led and prepared the Seder.  Sat next to us in Shul on Yomtov.  Are now gone.


We know that death is a door through which everyone of us must pass:  there are no exceptions.   Hopefully, when our last day comes, we might pass away with the grace and dignity of Yaakov Avinu.  Of our Patriarch Jacob.


In our old age, Lying in bed, with our family gathered around us, having told everyone we needed to tell, our words of love and concern, free of pain, free of guilt, at peace with God and with our fellow man.  That’s our dream.


But that’s not the way it seems to happen in our time.  Therefore, death frightens us, death is our greatest enemy.  Rabbi Harold Kushner wrote in his new work, “When all you’ve ever wanted isn’t enough (required reading for all) that perhaps, it is not really death that frightens us.


Listen to his words:


I believe that it is not dying that people are afraid of.  Something else.  Something more unsettling and more tragic than dying frightens us.  We are afraid of never having lived, of coming to the end of our days, with the sense, that we were never really alive, that we never figured out what life was for.


I recall the concluding scene of an old film where honeymooners are about to depart on a cruise and they tell each other how much they love each other, how much their lives have been enhanced by having known each other.  That even if they were both to die, those months they had known, love together had made their lives worthwhile.  There were no regrets.


They get on the ocean liner, and as it leaves port, the name of the ship is revealed.  The Titanic.  {It is not how long we live; I suppose, for the most part, it is how we live each moment, each hour, each day.}


For the seven astronauts on the space shuttle, their days were to be cut short, but like Moses, they had died climbing.


And yet, there is another part of the Challenger disaster which only came to light after several months of scientific investigations into the mishap.


I believe it is more relevant to the meaning of this holiest of days, A day on which we shall soon recite Yiskor.  AT first, it was though that all seven astronauts had died immediately, at the moment of the explosion.


Now, it was discussed, that death had only come when the capsule hit the water.  For perhaps as much as five minutes, the astronauts were alive and conscious and yet knew that death was certain.


The thought terrorizes me.  Can you imagine knowing that in a few moments death was imminent?  What would we think of?  If God forbid, you and I were in such circumstances?  What would go through our mind?  What went through their minds.  The seven astronauts?


Of course, no one will ever know for sure.  But I believe in thinking about this that our Rabbis knew.  And they injected three possibilities, that a man on his death bed might think.


I know it is not pleasant, but I want you to consider on this Yom Kippur, what If?  What if I had five minutes to live?


There are three possible responses.  It seems to me and they all begin with the two words – IF ONLY!!!


First.  If only I had known when I said goodbye to my loved ones…the very last goodbye!  I want to read you an except from a beautiful story of holocaust literature entitled The Kiss  by Yaffa Eliach.  These are the Rebbe’s own words.


"I had a foreign passport from a South American country.  It was a passport for myself.  My rebbetzin, of blessed memory, and for a young child.  But when I received the passport, it was too late.  There was no longer a rebbetzin and my beloved grandson, as well as my daughter and son-in-law, were all gone too.  Upon receiving the passport, I realized that I had the opportunity to save two Jewish souls, a middle-aged women and a young child.  When this became known, about forty children were brought to me by their parents.  Little boys crying and begging to be saved.  They promised to be good and not to be a burden to me.  How could I choose?  I told the Jewish leaders that I was returning to my apartment and that they should bring me a child.

Two days later a father came with a small son, aged six, “I am Perlberger”, he introduced himself.  Then he went on:  “Rebbe, I am giving you my child.  God should help you so that you should be able to save my son.”  He bent down, kissed the child on his head and said, “Shraga, from this moment on, this Jew standing here next to you is your father.”


That kiss I can’t forget.  Wherever I go, that kiss follows me all my life.  Before he shut the door behind him, the father took one more lingering look at his son.  Then I heard the echo of his painful steps as he descended the stairs.  God helped us.  The boy and I managed to survive Bergen-Belsen together.  Despite many difficulties, I studied with him every single day in camp, with God’s help, we were liberated by the American Army on a death train on Rosh Chodesh Iyar, April 13, 1945.


The Rebbe concludes his story by saying “All the time, the echo of that kiss that little Shraga received on his forehead resounds in my ears.”  I see before my eyes a father bending and kissing his beloved son and pointing to me and saying “From now on this man is your father”.
The last line in the story was:


 This last kiss of a father to his son, follows me all of my life.


My friends, the father knew this was the last kiss.  Can you imagine the love, the warmth, the tenderness that went into that last kiss.  Maybe in a way he was lucky.  He knew.  The astronauts could not have known, if only, if only they knew.


In a very real sense, none of us know the time of our last kiss.  My kids come in and kiss me before they leave for school.  I kiss Aviva before I leave for the Shul.  Who knows what lies ahead, what tomorrow will bring?  That one kiss, each kiss, must be with as much love and concern as possible.


Paul Tsongas, the former senator from the state of Massachusetts, learned this lesson well.  In September of 1983, he discovered a lump in his body while showering.  One thing led to another and it was diagnosed as nodular lymphoma.  A form of cancer.  It was treatable but not curable.  He could, however, go on for many years.


But Mr. Tsongas decided not to run for re-election.  He said:


“My disease forces me to consider my deepest responsibilities and those responsibilities are to my family.”


The words of a friend of Mr. Tsongas had a great impact and influence on his decision.  The friend wrote:


No one on his death bed has ever said, I wish I had spent more time on my business.


Mr. Tsongas now enjoys his wife and children and cherishes each moment he shares with them.  For the first time, he said, I know now that I will not live forever and I’m better off for knowing it.”


Yes, my friends, he knows and he will never have to say – if I only had known.  We also must learn the same lesson.


We are not Mr. Tsongas, we are not in the ill-fated space shuttle:  But, we can learn and treat our loved ones as if we only had five minutes left.


What would be the second regret which might have gone through the minds of the astronauts?

If I only realized, what I had when I had it.


This I believe would be our regret as well, If death would come our way in five minutes.


One important part of our lives we so often neglect is appreciation of our spouses.  Spouses often after years of marriage become such strangers to each other.  I am reminded of the play by Ionesco “The Bald Soprano”  about a man and a woman who meet on a train as apparent strangers.


In polite conversations, they discover they have an awful lot in common.  They both live in the same town, same building, the same apartment.  They both have a daughter named Alice, seven years old, with one blue and one green eye.   It is not long before they discover to their astonishment, and the astonishment of the audience that they are husband and wife and have been married for some fifteen years.


Yes, there is exaggeration here, but there is also “Subtle Truth.”  How many couples live together for years but stop sensing the other’s joy, the other’s frustrations:  They no longer hear the cry of urgency, the pain – they just go through life day after day, month after month, year after year.  Strangers to each other.


Sometimes, their lives draw to old age and they are still strangers.  How sad.  They stopped communicating.  They stopped appreciating what the other means.


The years they worked, while we went to school.  The years life was simple, when a small apartment and a couple outfits would suffice.  The flowers, the walks in the park.  Kissing in public.  We didn’t even care who was looking.


What happened to all of this?  Now, we hear “he has outgrown her”.  She, mitindirinin, has to find herself.  Of course, sometimes marriages were mismatched.  Our Rabbis would not want us to live out our lives with emptiness and despair; but I believe, if we had five minutes, many of us would begin to see blessings that we may have taken for granted.  We would yearn to say those words of appreciation, if we only had the opportunity.


And it is not only our spouses – what about our children?  Do we appreciate them?  Jonathan, my five year old, takes a ring and drops it down the bathroom sink.  Why?  He wants to see what the pipe looks like if it is removed?  I could have killed him – after I yell, He looks up to me and says, “Don’t be so mad, you should be glad you have me.”  You know what?  He was right, but I still punished him.  You see our kids are not nachas-producing machines, to be only
appreciated when they give us joy.  I know they drive us crazy.  Little children, little problem, big children, big problems – and if we had five minutes, oh how we would yearn for more time with them, to love them, to appreciate them, to play with them, if only we could.


And what about life itself?  Do we appreciate it?


Do we realize that most of us have more.  Much more than ever before in the history of our people?


Do we appreciate the fact that we live in America.  A bastion of freedom, the greatest country in the history of the world?


And, do we appreciate that we are in Shul this Yom Kippur?


Some who where here last year, are not here this year, and never will be again.


You are here:  I know for some its aches and pains, physical and emotional, but you are here.  Be grateful for that.  I don’t mean to be so blunt, but you are not in a grave, you are not in intensive care, you are not bed-ridden, you are in Shul welcoming in another New Year, and that sounds okay to me, and it should to you.


In short, say to yourself, Boy, I am blessed, with being alive, with having family and friends, with the ability to be in Shul welcoming in a New Year.


In only I appreciated what I had when I had it. . . . .appreciate it now. . . . my friends, when you have it.


Yes, If only I had known. . . . If only I had realized and appreciated what I had:  and as the shuttle falls through the sky, the third possibility:  “If only I had other chance, I would do things differently.”


I understand this “If Only” in the following way.  Much has been discovered in the field of medicine.  The technology of medicine over the last ten years has actually been able to revive the dead.


Organ transplants, dialysis machines and various drugs have not only prolonged life; but sometimes brings one back from the point of death.


In an interesting book, Life After Life, by Dr. Raymond Moody, he interviewed 150 patients who were at the point of death and then miraculously were revived.


They all said similar things:  They felt drawn to a bright light, which was beautiful and even exhilarating.  They saw dead relatives, and a quick replay of their lives flashed before them.  This, by the way, is what Kabbalists told us happened hundreds of years ago.


Afterwards, none were afraid of death: and each said that as they reviewed their lives, there was one aspect they would do over – now that they were given a chance to live again.


They would learn to love more intensely.  If only I could do it again, I would love more intensely.


Let us focus on one troublesome phenomenon of our times.  In a recent Psychology Today study, 59% of parents over age 65 surveyed felt unloved.  The authors conclude that a growing problem in America has been neglect of aging parents.


That sounds like someone else’s problem, not ours.  Our tradition has always held a special place of status for our senior citizens, especially our parents.


Of course, we love our parents.  But let’s be honest; at times, some of us resent them.  Whatever we do is not enough.  They are forever telling us how to spend our money – how to raise our kids – they still think we are in primary school – they think they are always right.
What is really going on?


Personally, the past couple of weeks have not been pleasant ones for my family.  My mother took ill and for a while the situation was grave.  Indeed.  Now, thank G-D, she is doing much better; the critical stage has passed.  But, I realized that my beautiful, vivacious mother has
had to also succumb to age.  My dad, although cheerful and wonderful, also has a myriad of aches and pains and worries.  It certainly is beginning to take its toll.


I keep saying to myself.  If all of this is clear to me, imagine how they must feel?  They can’t do what they used to.  It must be so frustrating to them.  And although, I can never remember them being a burden to us, they still are trying so hard to hang on.


I believe all of our parents are craving to remain the giant influences in our lives, to feel counted, to feel important.  Sometimes they may become overburdening or irritating to us.  But that’s when they need our love even more intensely.


So let’s give that love now to our parents so that we will never have to say:


“If only I could have another chance, I would have moved more intensely.”


And what about our children.  I see, sometimes, such communication barriers between children and parents.  “Where are you going?” – Answer, “Out”: “What will you be doing?” – Answer “Nothing”; “What time will you be back?” – Answer – “Later”.


Well, let me tell you, Kinderlach.  If you or your parents had five minutes to live, I think you would have a lot more to say to your parents.


And let me tell you something else – your parents are not going to be here forever – so what are you waiting for?


Now listen, I am not trying to lay a guilt trip on you.  Only to tell you the facts of life and. . . . death.  I know, they are too possessive, too old-fashioned, you want to do your own thing – express your own independence.   


Fine, I want that too.  You have to be able to stand on your own two feet: but don’t leave Mom and Dad behind.  Share with them.  Keep them informed.  Let them be part of your life.  For you never know when that five minutes might run out.


In short, kids of all ages, husbands, wives, your parents, your spouses – they need your affection.  They need to be loved more intensely.  Do you recall a couple of years ago on Yom Kippur I asked you to tell your wives, your husbands, your parents those three words – I love you, I need you, you are beautiful – Do you recall?


This year I want to do something even more difficult.  I want you to go home and say those same three words, only this time I want you to really mean it.


If only I realized – Yes, Stop, appreciate the blessings you have.


If only I could do it.  It would.  You still can – You’ve got today.


My friends.  Yizkor beckons:  On this day, we pause to remember our loved ones who are no more –


God, grant us the wisdom to appreciate life to make all our life bound up in the lives of others, who are living, so that after the fullness of my days, others will gather to bless our name, for have given and shared and loved and appreciated.


Amen


Soon it will be time for Yizkor and that scene still haunts me – the explosion – and then five minutes.  If only I.  If only I. . . and then the capsule hits the water, it’s all over.  Then you realize it’s all the same – 5 minutes, 5 days, 5 years, 50 years.  It’s all the same for it is over before we realize.


Sunrise, Sunset, My beautiful Aviva, 18 Chai years together; My daugher, Avi, A Bat Mitzvah already, swiftly flow the years, and then it’s over.


“If only I knew” – Yes, my friends, it may be the last time.

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Jimmy Reid: 'A rat race is for rats. We're not rats', Rectorial address, Glasgow University - 1972

Featured eulogies

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For Geoffrey Tozer: 'I have to say we all let him down', by Paul Keating - 2009
For Geoffrey Tozer: 'I have to say we all let him down', by Paul Keating - 2009
for James Baldwin: 'Jimmy. You crowned us', by Toni Morrison - 1988
for James Baldwin: 'Jimmy. You crowned us', by Toni Morrison - 1988
for Michael Gordon: '13 days ago my Dad’s big, beautiful, generous heart suddenly stopped beating', by Scott and Sarah Gordon - 2018
for Michael Gordon: '13 days ago my Dad’s big, beautiful, generous heart suddenly stopped beating', by Scott and Sarah Gordon - 2018

Featured commencement

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Tara Westover: 'Your avatar isn't real, it isn't terribly far from a lie', The Un-Instagrammable Self, Northeastern University - 2019
Tara Westover: 'Your avatar isn't real, it isn't terribly far from a lie', The Un-Instagrammable Self, Northeastern University - 2019
Tim Minchin: 'Being an artist requires massive reserves of self-belief', WAAPA - 2019
Tim Minchin: 'Being an artist requires massive reserves of self-belief', WAAPA - 2019
Atul Gawande: 'Curiosity and What Equality Really Means', UCLA Medical School - 2018
Atul Gawande: 'Curiosity and What Equality Really Means', UCLA Medical School - 2018
Abby Wambach: 'We are the wolves', Barnard College - 2018
Abby Wambach: 'We are the wolves', Barnard College - 2018
Eric Idle: 'America is 300 million people all walking in the same direction, singing 'I Did It My Way'', Whitman College - 2013
Eric Idle: 'America is 300 million people all walking in the same direction, singing 'I Did It My Way'', Whitman College - 2013
Shirley Chisholm: ;America has gone to sleep', Greenfield High School - 1983
Shirley Chisholm: ;America has gone to sleep', Greenfield High School - 1983

Featured sport

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Joe Marler: 'Get back on the horse', Harlequins v Bath pre game interview - 2019
Joe Marler: 'Get back on the horse', Harlequins v Bath pre game interview - 2019
Ray Lewis : 'The greatest pain of my life is the reason I'm standing here today', 52 Cards -
Ray Lewis : 'The greatest pain of my life is the reason I'm standing here today', 52 Cards -
Mel Jones: 'If she was Bradman on the field, she was definitely Keith Miller off the field', Betty Wilson's induction into Australian Cricket Hall of Fame - 2017
Mel Jones: 'If she was Bradman on the field, she was definitely Keith Miller off the field', Betty Wilson's induction into Australian Cricket Hall of Fame - 2017
Jeff Thomson: 'It’s all those people that help you as kids', Hall of Fame - 2016
Jeff Thomson: 'It’s all those people that help you as kids', Hall of Fame - 2016

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Featured weddings

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Dan Angelucci: 'The Best (Best Man) Speech of all time', for Don and Katherine - 2019
Dan Angelucci: 'The Best (Best Man) Speech of all time', for Don and Katherine - 2019
Hallerman Sisters: 'Oh sister now we have to let you gooooo!' for Caitlin & Johnny - 2015
Hallerman Sisters: 'Oh sister now we have to let you gooooo!' for Caitlin & Johnny - 2015
Korey Soderman (via Kyle): 'All our lives I have used my voice to help Korey express his thoughts, so today, like always, I will be my brother’s voice' for Kyle and Jess - 2014
Korey Soderman (via Kyle): 'All our lives I have used my voice to help Korey express his thoughts, so today, like always, I will be my brother’s voice' for Kyle and Jess - 2014

Featured Arts

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Bruce Springsteen: 'They're keepers of some of the most beautiful sonic architecture in rock and roll', Induction U2 into Rock Hall of Fame - 2005
Bruce Springsteen: 'They're keepers of some of the most beautiful sonic architecture in rock and roll', Induction U2 into Rock Hall of Fame - 2005
Olivia Colman: 'Done that bit. I think I have done that bit', BAFTA acceptance, Leading Actress - 2019
Olivia Colman: 'Done that bit. I think I have done that bit', BAFTA acceptance, Leading Actress - 2019
Axel Scheffler: 'The book wasn't called 'No Room on the Broom!', Illustrator of the Year, British Book Awards - 2018
Axel Scheffler: 'The book wasn't called 'No Room on the Broom!', Illustrator of the Year, British Book Awards - 2018
Tina Fey: 'Only in comedy is an obedient white girl from the suburbs a diversity candidate', Kennedy Center Mark Twain Award -  2010
Tina Fey: 'Only in comedy is an obedient white girl from the suburbs a diversity candidate', Kennedy Center Mark Twain Award - 2010

Featured Debates

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Sacha Baron Cohen: 'Just think what Goebbels might have done with Facebook', Anti Defamation League Leadership Award - 2019
Sacha Baron Cohen: 'Just think what Goebbels might have done with Facebook', Anti Defamation League Leadership Award - 2019
Greta Thunberg: 'How dare you', UN Climate Action Summit - 2019
Greta Thunberg: 'How dare you', UN Climate Action Summit - 2019
Charlie Munger: 'The Psychology of Human Misjudgment', Harvard University - 1995
Charlie Munger: 'The Psychology of Human Misjudgment', Harvard University - 1995
Lawrence O'Donnell: 'The original sin of this country is that we invaders shot and murdered our way across the land killing every Native American that we could', The Last Word, 'Dakota' - 2016
Lawrence O'Donnell: 'The original sin of this country is that we invaders shot and murdered our way across the land killing every Native American that we could', The Last Word, 'Dakota' - 2016