for Les Murray: 'This is not a job, it's a mission', by Craig Foster - 2017

14 August 2017, Sydney Australia

Craig Foster is an ex Socceroo and long time broadcasting partner of Les Murray.  Watch the video at SBS on demand.

Football evangelist, missionary of the world game, Les Murray changed both the game in Australia and the nation through his life-long mission to make Australia understand.

Alongside his partner the great Johnny Warren, the two main protagonists in the inexorable rise of the beautiful game in Australia.

More on that in a moment.

Firstly, may I extend the condolences of our football community to Les’s family with particular mention ofthe extraordinary Cida Maria Olsen, who spent the past 15 years with our colleague and nursed Les through his most difficult times, in the past 2.

We witnessed first hand the incrediblelove and devotion Cida gave our brother, how she cooked his meals twice a day when he was in hospital, arranged his schedule, made his apologies and chided him gently over his relentless smoking, to little effect as most of you would be well aware.

Thank you Cida on behalf of the millions of Australians who are part of Les’s extended football family. We owe you a debt of gratitude and you need only ask and football will be there to support you.

Now, to Les’s beloved game.

He appeared on our television screens every week and gave his football sermons, and changed the social fabric of a nation.

Before the game was truly accepted, when it took great moral courage to carry the fight, Les was there. He fought the battle for every immigrant, publicly, on their behalf, as their representative and through the game they shared.

When they arrived here and found little of their beloved game, they could always turn to Les and feel a little more at ease, that someone understood them.

Speaking with his famously perfect pronunciations anddressed impeccably, his pride in the game and its community, in you, in us, was palpable.

I can still hear him so clearly now.. ‘this is not a job, it’s a mission’, he would say. To make Australia see.

Les brought the world’s best football to our screens for a reason, to open our eyes and teach a new generation of kids to emulate the greats. To become great.

The very kids that would later make the Round of 16 in Germany. All part of his personal, lasting legacy.

For this, Australian football is forever in the debt of Les Murray.

He despised any attempts to mutate the game to accommodate the prevailing culture. ‘Let them come to us, in time Australia will learn’. And how they have, Les, how they have.

Les believed in Australian players, Australian coaches, Australia’s destiny in the game.

I remember most fondly his love of seeing Australia play, his heartache when it did not end well, his unbridled joy when we qualified in 05 against Uruguay, young again, as few had lived the torment of the 32 failed years so deeply.

And above all he adored the great players, joga bonito, beautiful play.

‘Where’s the ball son..’ he would yell when Messi dazzled a defender. And when a team toyed with the opponent hecouldn’t hide his pleasure.. ‘they’re hiding the ball..’ he would chuckle, like his mighty Magyars used to do.

Les’s most enjoyable moments, you see, were not when the camera was on, but when it was off, just watching the game. As it should be.

He still played on occasion. Libero like Beckenbaueur, yelling ‘keep the ball.. keep the ball’, and momentarily he was with his heroes Puskas and Di Stefano in ‘60, up 7-3 against Frankfurt, directing the play of his childhood dreams.

I tell you it was glorious to see. The pride. The sheer joy.

Usually, Les could mask his emotion as the consummate professional, though one of our most difficult broadcast moments together, when Italy’s penalty knocked us out of the World Cup is an abiding memory.

We sat, in the bowels of the Fritz-Walter Stadion in Kaiserslautern, waiting as the floor manager counted downto live – ‘ten, nine, eight..’ and neither could look at the other, lest the tears flow.

That is why he had the admiration and trust of our football community - because he cared as much as them.

Speaking of professionalism, while we await our own Ballon d’Or winner, off field we had our own galactico.

He was unquestionably one of the world’s finest football broadcasters. The historical knowledge, the insightful interviews, and when Les worked with the legendary Martin Tyler or football’s other luminaries, they met as equals.

The game we enjoy today is courtesy of the two great warriors who fought our battle, Les and Johnny, whose spiritual leadership brought millions along for the ride, on whose coattails we all sailed into a new era.

And yet Les’s mission went so far beyond where we are today.

And if his passing marks the end of a golden era of the two great champions of our game, leaving us momentarily uneasy, uncertain, for we had the comfort of Les Murray’s guidance and service for three decades, whence to now?

That is why this final farewell is a call to arms to the football community, a moment we must reinforce the dream, reenergize the mission, for Australia to become a football nation and to win the ultimate prize, the FIFA World Cup. Male and female.

Les and Johnny believed it was possible, and so must we all. It can be done.

Only in this way can we complete their work, for their visionary beliefs to come to fruition and change Australia forever, for the better.

Football and Australia, a match made in heaven we might say, from where Les and his mate Johnny now judge our contribution.

‘What are you all going to do now?’, I hear them ask.

‘How are you going to bring our vision to reality?’

Well, friends of football, if I may answer on our behalf, we will fight, and dream and believe until the mission is achieved. Les did his duty, this is ours.

Les Murray lived his life for Australian football and to change Australian society through preaching the gospel of the beautiful game.

May he rest in peace knowing that his work will continue. That is the best eulogy you, I, we can provide.

So rest well old friend, alongside Johnny. We’ll miss you dearly.

It will be a grand day when we can again discuss football in the world game studio in the sky.

 

Source: http://theworldgame.sbs.com.au/video/10238...

for Heather Heyer: 'You never think you’re going to bury your child', by Susan Bro - 2017

16 August 2017, Charlottesville, Virginia, USA

Heather Heyer was run down by a neo Nazi at a rally in Charlottesville. Her death shocked the world. This is the eulogy delivered by her mother.

My child’s famous Facebook post was: "If you’re not outraged, you’re not paying attention." She paid attention. She made a lot of us pay attention. Oh, my gosh, dinner with her, we knew, was going to be an ordeal of listening. And conversation. And perhaps disagreement, but it was going to happen. And so, my husband would say, "OK, I’m going to go out in the car and play on my video game for a while." And we would sit and would grill. And she and I would talk, and I would listen. And we would negotiate, and I would listen.

And we talked about all this stuff. We talked about politics. We talked about anything that caught her eye that she felt was fair, unfair. She’d talk about her feelings about the office and how things were going. I mean, she just talked. The girl loved to talk. And she was single, so there was nobody to listen at home, so mama got a lot of it. And that was wonderful.

You never think you’re going to bury your child. You never think to take those pictures. They asked me for pictures for this, and I struggled. I had pictures from her childhood. But I had to go to Facebook to find pictures of my child, because we were always together. I saw her a couple times a month, at least, and we would text each other fairly often, and we would Facebook message at bedtime, "I love you," "I love you. You doing OK?" "Yeah, I love you." So I have no regrets on that part. Take pictures of the ones that you love, because you don’t know when they’re not going to be there.

But here’s what I want to say to you today. This could be a storm in a teacup, and it could all be for nothing. This could have—I could have said, "Let’s don’t do this publicly. Let’s have a small private funeral." But, you know, that’s not who Heather was. Anybody who knew Heather said, "Yeah, this is the way she had to go, big and large." Had to have the world involved, because that’s my child. She’s just that way. Always has been, and she will continue to be.

Because here’s the message. Although Heather was a caring and compassionate person, so are a lot of you. A lot of you go that extra mile. And I think the reason that what happened to Heather has struck a chord is because we know that what she did is achievable. We don’t all have to die. We don’t all have to sacrifice our lives. They tried to kill my child to shut her up. Well, guess what. You just magnified her.

Thank you. Thank you.

So, here’s what I want to happen. You ask me, "What can I do?" So many caring people, pages of pages of pages of stuff I’m going through. I’m reading pages of pages of pages how she’s touching the world. I want this to spread. I don’t want this to die. This is just the beginning of Heather’s legacy. This is not the end of Heather’s legacy.

You need to find in your heart that small spark of accountability. What is there that I can do to make the world a better place? What injustice do I see—and want to turn away: "I don’t really want to get involved in that. I don’t want to speak up. They’ll be annoyed with me. My boss might think less of me." I don’t care. You poke that finger at yourself, like Heather would have done, and you make it happen. You take that extra step. You find a way to make a difference in the world.

My child had a high school education. My child was no saint. She was hard to raise, because everything was a negotiation. Not kidding. But you know what? She was a firm believer in whatever she believed. And let’s do that. Let’s find that spark of conviction. Let’s find in ourselves that action. Let’s spread this. Let’s have the uncomfortable dialogue.

It ain’t easy sitting down and saying, "Well, why are you upset?" It ain’t easy sitting down and going, "Yeah, well, I think this way. And I don’t agree with you, but I’m going to respectfully listen to what you have to say. We’re not going to sit around and shake hands and go 'Kumbaya.' And I’m sorry, it’s not all about forgiveness. I know that that’s not a popular trend. But the truth is, we are going to have our differences. We are going to be angry with each other. But let’s channel that anger, not into hate, not into violence, not into fear, but let’s channel that difference, that anger, into righteous action."

Right now, down the road, there is a blood drive going on in Heather’s name. Right now, there are people who are here willing to listen to one another and talk to one another. Last night in New England, they had a peaceful rally in Heather’s name to have some difficult dialogues. If you ever want to see what one of those dialogues looks like, look at her Facebook post. I’m telling you, they were rough sometimes. But they were dialogues. And the conversations have to happen. That’s the only way we’re going to carry Heather’s spark through.

So, remember in your heart: If you’re not outraged, you’re not paying attention. And I want you to pay attention, find what’s wrong. Don’t ignore it. Don’t look the other way. You make it a point to look at it, and say to yourself, "What can I do to make a difference?" And that’s how you’re going to make my child’s death worthwhile. I’d rather have my child, but, by golly, if I got to give her up, we’re going to make it count.

Source: https://www.buzzfeed.com/coralewis/heres-h...

Tony Walsh (Longfella): 'This is the place', Manchester bombing vigil - 2017

24 May 2017, Manchester, UK

This was a vigil in honour of the victim of the Manchester terrorist attack on 23rd May 2017 at Manchester Stadium.

It falls to me to sum up what makes this city, its people, its communities, so great, with a poem. It's called 'This is the Place'.

This is the place

In the north-west of England. It’s ace, it’s the best

And the songs that we sing from the stands, from our bands

Set the whole planet shaking.

Our inventions are legends. There’s nowt we can’t make, and so we make brilliant music

We make brilliant bands

We make goals that make souls leap from seats in the stands

And we make things from steel

And we make things from cotton

And we make people laugh, take the mick summat rotten

And we make you at home

And we make you feel welcome and we make summat happen

And we can’t seem to help it

And if you’re looking from history, then yeah we’ve a wealth

But the Manchester way is to make it yourself.

And make us a record, a new number one

And make us a brew while you’re up, love, go on

And make us feel proud that you’re winning the league

And make us sing louder and make us believe that this is the place that has helped shape the world

And this is the place where a Manchester girl named Emmeline Pankhurst from the streets of Moss Side led a suffragette city with sisterhood pride

And this is the place with appliance of science, we’re on it, atomic, we struck with defiance, and in the face of a challenge, we always stand tall, Mancunians, in union, delivered it all

Such as housing and libraries and health, education and unions and co-ops and first railway stations

So we’re sorry, bear with us, we invented commuters. But we hope you forgive us, we invented computers.

And this is the place Henry Rice strolled with rolls, and we’ve rocked and we’ve rolled with our own northern soul

And so this is the place to do business then dance, where go-getters and goal-setters know they’ve a chance

And this is the place where we first played as kids. And me mum, lived and died here, she loved it, she did.

And this is the place where our folks came to work, where they struggled in puddles, they hurt in the dirt and they built us a city, they built us these towns and they coughed on the cobbles to the deafening sound to the steaming machines and the screaming of slaves, they were scheming for greatness, they dreamed to their graves.

And they left us a spirit. They left us a vibe. That Mancunian way to survive and to thrive and to work and to build, to connect, and create and Greater Manchester’s greatness is keeping it great.

And so this is the place now with kids of our own. Some are born here, some drawn here, but they all call it home.

And they’ve covered the cobbles, but they’ll never defeat, all the dreamers and schemers who still teem through these streets.

Because this is a place that has been through some hard times: oppressions, recessions, depressions, and dark times.

But we keep fighting back with Greater Manchester spirit. Northern grit, Northern wit, and Greater Manchester’s lyrics.

And these hard times again, in these streets of our city, but we won’t take defeat and we don’t want your pity.

Because this is a place where we stand strong together, with a smile on our face, greater Manchester forever.

And we’ve got this place where a team with a dream can get funding and something to help with a scheme.

Because this is a place that understands your grand plans. We don’t do “no can do” we just stress “yes we can”

Forever Manchester’s a charity for people round here, you can fundraise, donate, you can be a volunteer. You can live local, give local, we can honestly say, we do charity different, that Mancunian way.

And we fund local kids, and we fund local teams. We support local dreamers to work for their dreams. We support local groups and the great work they do. So can you help us. help local people like you?

Because this is the place in our hearts, in our homes, because this is the place that’s a part of our bones.

Because Greater Manchester gives us such strength from the fact that this is the place, we should give something back.

Always remember, never forget, forever Manchester.

To read more poetry from Longfella, visit his website.

Source: https://www.theguardian.com/global/video/2...

For Lou Richards: 'Lou is bigger than a legend', by Ron Joseph - 2017

18 May 2017, St Paul's Cathedral, Melbourne, Australia

Lou was right. He told me his farewell would be bigger than Texas. He also told me that I would have to speak at his funeral.

"All the other people I know are dead,” he said.

"You better start thinking about what you are going to say, because it will be a bloody big funeral. Harold Holt’s will have nothing on mine. I had a house down at Portsea near him, you know. He didn’t drown. He took off with a sheila.

"It will be a state funeral, just like his. So that’ll give Jack and Bobby Davis the shits.

"Don’t let them have it at Jeff’s Shed. That is a cold hole, like Jeff. It will be a telecast around Australia, it might even be around the world. So you better be ready to talk on national television, Ronnie, and don’t stuff it up. You’re bloody lucky to get this opportunity, you know. No one else would give it to you.

"Tell Nicole and Kim to make sure that they get a good quid for the television rights. If Seven are covering it, tell the girls to charge double. Casey paid me bugger-all for all the time I spent with him at 3DB and Channel 7. He was a good bloke, Case. Edna and I loved our time with Ron and Pauline, but he was tight, tight as a fish’s ...

“EJ’s was a state funeral too. I’m bigger than Ted ever was. I nicknamed him Mr Football and he believed it for the rest of his life.

“I called Barassi Mrs Football. Of all the blokes I have nicknamed over the years Barassi is about the only one that ever lived up to his moniker.

“And if that Mike Fitzpatrick’s at my funeral, you know the bloke who used to play for Carlton, the Rhodes Scholar — Rhodes Scholar, my bum — tell him he spent too much time at Oxford and Cambridge and can’t recognise a legend when he sees one.”

So Lou leaves us after 94 marvellous years. With memories that will last our lifetime. There would be few people in this church who wouldn’t have their own special story of Lou and his ability to warm up an event, a lunch or a dinner, with laughter and fun. You could almost say that Lou knew it was expected of him.

I remember as a young upstart at North in my early years having my first visit to Channel 7 and Ron Casey’s World of Sport. Uncle Doug Elliot was presenting an ad for Ballantyne’s chocolates, reading his lines off an idiot sheet, a piece of butcher paper held by two members of the Seven camera crew. Live on TV Uncle Doug was halfway through his ad, staring intensely, glasses over his nose, reading the idiot sheet when up came Lou and set the butcher paper alight. I couldn’t believe it.

Jack Dyer, Bob Davis, Neil Roberts, Skeeter Coghlan, Bill Collins and Bruce Andrew fell around laughing. It took a stern Ron Casey to get World of Sport back on track.

And who could ever forget the Phoenix Hotel? As legendary as the Flinders St Herald Sun building alongside. Sir Henry Winneke was Victorian governor in the ’70s and after a VFL dinner at the Southern Cross, Lou invited him back to his hotel for a drink. Sir Henry, the great man that he was, obliged. When I made it back to Lou’s pub at one in the morning there was the Rolls-Royce, numberplates VIC 1, double-parked in Flinders St outside the Phoenix. Upstairs, Sir Henry was the centre of attention. Lou came up and asked him if he would mind staying because Edna wouldn’t believe that royalty had visited his hotel and he wanted Edna to meet him. Lou was gone for five minutes and then reappeared.

“Governor,” he said, “Sir Henry, your Excellency, I never know what to call you, but Edna is in bed upstairs. She has rollers in her hair and she said is to tell you that she couldn’t care if you are the king of England, she’s not coming down to meet you.”

What a beautiful marriage Lou shared with Edna. They were inseparable. They shared a wonderful marriage and friendship. When Edna went into care, Lou didn’t leave her bedside. When Lou died last week he had endured 3350 days without her. It was only after Edna had gone that you could get Lou out for a coffee, a lunch, a footy match or a drive in the car. He could still laugh, there was some special events — his 90th birthday at Kim’s, the unveiling of Lou’s statue at Collingwood — but his darling Edna had left his life. You knew that deep down all Lou was ever thinking was, “Where’s Edna?”.

Having read, observed and listened to all the glowing tributes that have been printed and aired on the radio and TV since last week, it is easy to overlook the depth of the man himself. A character on the footy field, as a tough, take-no-prisoners captain, and a character off it as a person with a rare knockabout charm and sense of fun — as well as a generosity of spirit and a strong sense of doing the right thing.

The National Trust in 1982 went as far as classifying Lou as a national treasure. But Lou is much, much more than that.

First and foremost, he was a devoted husband, father and grandfather, brother to Ron and Glenys, and an uncle. And regardless of all the fame that came his way, Edna, Nicole, Kim, with the grandkids, were always his pride and priority.

How lucky were we at North. Shirley Trainor, the wife of our ’60s president Tony, was a close friend of Edna. They were best friends. Inevitably the Trainor family introduced Lou with Edna to a football club that wore blue and white, not black and white stripes.

After some hits and misses in the early ’70s, North started to get its show on the road. They were heady days. Fundraisers and functions that rolled from one week to the next, and Lou was always there. People attended just to be in the room with him. Six successive Grand Finals and in 1975 the inaugural premiership.

Then the famous draw and replay of 1977. The VFL competition was on its way to being a national competition. The Grand Final was televised live and in colour, and Ron Casey and Lou Richards led the way. For 40 years, Lou would be up on Grand Final day at 6am to host North’s Grand Final breakfast, that through his brilliance became its own institution.

Lou would then leave the Southern Cross to call the Grand Final with Mike Williamson or Peter Landy. Prime minister Hawke never missed one of those breakfasts and Lou never missed giving the PM his famous line, “Bob, the only thing you haven’t done for the workers is become one”. With Allen Aylett, Albert Mantello and Ron Barassi, it seemed that Lou was also a part of the executive team at North. Lou loved his involvement and North loved him back.

Out of all of this grew great friendships like Shirley’s and Edna’s that stood the test of time. It would be wrong to say that North was the only beneficiary of Lou’s generosity. Lou had friends at every club and he delighted in helping them all with his presence and star quality. Today we say farewell. Lou is a legend. Who else gets an eight-page wraparound in the Herald Sun that is as much a part of this city as Lou and the MCG.

So Lou Richards leaves us after 94 marvellous years, with memories that will last our lifetime.

Lou might not have kicked as many goals as Tony Lockett or Peter Hudson but he is a legend. Lou might not have won as many Brownlow Medals as Haydn Bunton, Bob Skilton, Dick Reynolds and Ian Stewart but he is a legend.

And if his game as a player was just a little short of the class of the great EJ or the dynamic Ron Barassi, Lou is still a legend. In fact, Lou is bigger than a legend. Decency, loyalty, gentleness, warmth, kindness, integrity, humility, cheek and fun all in equal parts gave us Lou Richards.

Our love and thoughts are with Kim and Nicole and their families. Their loss first of Edna and now Lou is immeasurable. I thank them for the honour of speaking here today, I thank them for sharing Lou with us and, on behalf of all of us and our marvellous sport, I thank Lou for all that he gave.

We remember Lou with affection, admiration, gratitude and delight

Source: http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/opinion/r...

For Warren Zevon: 'Enjoy every sandwich', by David Letterman & Paul Schaeffer - 2003

7 September 2003, New York City, USA

Letterman and Schaeffer refer to the 'Enjoy Every Sandwich' appearance from Zevon some months earlier, when he talked about his diagnosis.

30 October 2002, New York City, USA

You heard about the flu? Yeah

Yeah well it’s true.

How did I learn about it. First of all let me saythat I might have made a tactical error in not going to a physician for twenty years.

It was one of those phobias that really didn’t pay off.

Teh only person that I ever go to is DrStan, you know Dr Stan, the dentist, and I always said if he can’t fix it, I’m screwed.

And I told Dr Stan that I was having shortness of breath, I had it for months, I did a short tour, went to Canada, and I would only hire people who would tell me it was stress.

Flunked out medical students who became musicians, I’d say ‘Imshort of breath ... all the time’, and they’d say, ‘dont you ever watch the Sopranos?’

I said, ‘No’

But when Dr Stan the dentist heard about it, he said, ‘it sounds like congestive heart failure or something, ‘ so he made me go to a doctor the next morning after he heard it.

Letterman: ‘Oh my god, and it turned out not to be congestive heart failure ... ‘

No, it’s lung cancer that’s spread.

Letterman: That’s tough.

Well it means you better get your dry cleaning done on special.

Letterman: To me, you look and seem remarkably healthy.

Well don’t be fooled. Don’t be fooled by cosmetics.

Letterman: How do you feel?

I don’t feel as bad as they say I am. So that’s a good deal.

They certainly don’t discourage you from doing whatever you want?

How is the work now, living with this diagnosis?

I’m working harder. I mean, you put more value on every minute. You do live. I mean I always thought I did that, I always enjoyed myself, but it’s more valuable now. You’re reminded to enjoy every sandwich, and every minute playing with the guys, and being with the kids and everything.